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recent bookmarks from andrewduckerParent concerned at time children spend playing computer games, also quietly grateful for it2026-04-08T16:26:37+00:00
https://newsthump.com/2026/04/08/parent-concerned-at-time-children-spending-playing-computer-games-also-quietly-grateful-for-it/
andrewduckerparenting children funny technologyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:7910ab307adb/This story about how a parent's love grows for their child rang true for me, even if it was written about adoption2025-08-18T14:22:43+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/what-no-one-told-me-about-love-when-adopting-a-child-3856917
andrewduckerlove children parenting adoptionhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:d0f643b9ae88/The Danish approach to raising children2025-08-02T18:41:04+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/i-moved-to-copenhagen-with-my-daughter-danish-parenting-showed-me-i-was-overbearing-3835619
andrewduckerchildren childhood Denmark parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:029d9021971f/Give new dads six weeks off work at nearly full pay, MPs say2025-06-10T10:16:43+00:00
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmk07jyjmxo
andrewduckeruk parenting fatherhoodhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:b2c94d7ff9db/I am not consistently this good at raising children. But this is very-much what I am aiming for2025-05-25T21:24:53+00:00
https://www.tumblr.com/andrewducker/784552752197074944?source=share
andrewduckerchildren parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:dead1d988f3c/The Default-Parent Problem (I am delighted that both school and nursery have now mostly learnt to call me first)2025-05-20T15:42:31+00:00
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2025/05/default-parent-mother-father/682727/
andrewduckerparenting sexism societyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:81ed413e6111/The five lies we tell mothers, and how to cope with the reality2024-09-24T16:38:08+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/lies-tell-mothers-how-cope-reality-3274650
andrewduckermotherhood parenting lieshttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:1e3ea077d0fc/"How I lured my teenagers out of their bedrooms"2024-08-09T08:06:57+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/how-lured-teenagers-out-bedrooms-positive-parenting-3212456
andrewduckerparenting bed teenagershttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:32c783933cc1/Elon Musk's daughter talks about the lies he spreads about her2024-07-25T19:47:09+00:00
https://www.threads.net/@vivllainous/post/C91xDGJSUX_?xmt=AQGzZhLbsRGW5qkIyoq9X1A8tEBOt2piwMz6DXqWoA8q5w
andrewduckerLGBT children transgender bigotry parenting ElonMuskhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:2a28bc162c0f/The Existential Relief of Having Children2024-03-13T14:53:31+00:00
https://thelivingfossils.substack.com/p/the-existential-relief-of-having
andrewduckerphilosophy anxiety stress parenting children lifehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:1b8040fe44e6/Monsterfucking is out. Monsterparenting is in.2024-02-23T13:45:36+00:00
https://www.tumblr.com/andrewducker/743121426024906752?source=share
andrewduckermonsters parenting funny storieshttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:86c379614346/I have clearly been wasting my life raising kids when I could have been pursuing my dreams like this instead!2024-02-15T09:19:01+00:00
https://x.com/sheherzog/status/1757848324055707893?t=83Cjm9X2nTOPOph0wBQNzA&s=09
andrewduckerdancing fatherhood parenting video OhForFucksSakehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:2edb21793656/"My son says he is not a book person. Where did my parenting go wrong?"2024-01-28T16:44:56+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/son-not-book-person-where-parenting-wrong-2877298
andrewduckerbooks children funny computers parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:d80af018b79a/Paternity leave alters the brain — suggesting daddies are made, not born2023-11-21T13:56:58+00:00
https://19thnews.org/2023/11/paternity-leave-brain-sugdaddies-are-made-not-born/
andrewduckerparenting fatherhood brainhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:77a46796478a/Storing some parental advice for later2023-09-04T11:14:58+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/radical-approach-parenting-made-me-better-mum-2578986
andrewduckerparenting advicehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:1dc1a05abd62/Forcing council meetings to be in person causes those with jobs, children, and disabilities to quit2023-06-29T07:23:13+00:00
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-65996576?at_medium=RSS&at_campaign=KARANGA
andrewduckerdisability politics UK parenting workhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:21cff3eb8df8/Boosting paternity leave has economic benefits and reduces inequality2023-06-15T10:58:06+00:00
https://pregnantthenscrewed.com/boosting-paternity-leave-has-economic-benefits/
andrewduckerparenting men uk inequalityhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:587129bb4b18/Frequently shouting at, isolating, and physically punishing young children made it 1.5 times more likely that a child would be at high risk of developing poor mental health by age nine2023-04-04T11:27:04+00:00
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/hostile-parenting-children-mental-health-b2311442.html
andrewduckerchildren mentalhealth parenting abusehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:bd0555be9c92/Children of same-sex couples fare as well as or better than heterosexual ones2023-03-07T12:12:23+00:00
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/same-sex-couple-children-wellbeing-b2295515.html
andrewduckerlgbt parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:79a24f3b90cf/I tried out Danish 'conscious parenting' for two weeks - and we're a happier family now2023-01-26T12:01:46+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/parented-teens-danish-way-conscious-parenting-2105167
andrewduckerdenmark parenting advicehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:4c6a240c57e5/A long thread of people whose fathers or partners just walked out one day2023-01-13T20:25:03+00:00
https://twitter.com/euphorixa/status/1613314701257019394?t=qPyvHXygpFqH-k4siGlKRA&s=09
andrewduckerparenting OhForFucksSake men abandonedhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:fb2bf84a2ef6/Hey, New Mom, Have You Considered Relaxing?2023-01-11T21:21:44+00:00
https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/hey-new-mom-have-you-considered-relaxing
andrewduckermother parenting children funnyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:676cfdf5d1f7/If you unscrew your belly button, your bottom will fall off (lessons learned from a dad)2022-12-05T11:59:25+00:00
https://mrjamesbell.com/if-you-unscrew-your-belly-button-your-bottom-will-fall-off-and-other-things-my-dad-taught-me/
andrewduckerparentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:3b9550e6ca6f/"As a parent of a trans child, all I want is for the NHS to properly support and care for them"2022-12-05T11:56:59+00:00
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/parent-trans-child-nhs-support-care-1992084
andrewduckertransgender UK NHS LGBT healthcare parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:9dfef2dfc54c/Miami man hopped a bus to start a new life. His parents got a court order.2022-10-08T08:55:00+00:00
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/state/florida/article266012206.html
andrewduckerautism parenting OhForFucksSake USAhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:69e30cf0ea21/An Open Letter to Bluey’s Parents: Please Stop2022-09-21T15:42:50+00:00
https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/an-open-letter-to-blueys-parents-please-stop
andrewduckerparenting dogs viaSwampers animation funnyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:fb66b4d1c447/Single Moms: Less Housework, More Leisure Than Married Moms2022-08-17T18:27:45+00:00
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201906/single-moms-less-housework-more-leisure-married-moms
andrewduckerhousework gender parenting work marriage relationships OhForFucksSakehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:dc41290f1942/Millennial Dads Spend Massively More Time With Their Kids2022-08-03T11:41:04+00:00
https://www.mother.ly/parenting/millennial-dads-spend-more-time-with-their-kids/#rebelltitem1
andrewduckerfatherhood parenting men viaSwampershttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:5fd76c40272a/Elon Musk: Billionaire's daughter cuts ties with her father2022-06-21T19:32:23+00:00
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-61880709?at_medium=RSS&at_campaign=KARANGA
andrewduckerElonMusk transgender LGBT parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:d58c4b92c485/Indian parents sue son for not producing grandchildren, demand $940,000 payment2022-05-17T10:43:37+00:00
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-05-13/indian-parents-sue-child-over-no-grandchildren/101065826
andrewduckerindia parenting children viaLilysea wtfhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:7946c353e06c/How to raise girls with confidence2022-05-03T10:20:47+00:00
https://www.facebook.com/amightygirl/posts/5031075073595432
andrewduckergirls parenting advice childrenhttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:bb2d2e072ee7/Turns out most dads like being involved with their young kids2022-04-27T09:47:29+00:00
https://www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/read-this/two-thirds-of-new-dads-admit-to-feeling-left-out-in-the-early-days-of-parenting-3670011
andrewduckerchildren fatherhood parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:c8591c4be73b/8 fights worth picking with your kids. (I don't agree with all of these, but I think there's lots worth considering2022-04-18T13:38:05+00:00
https://twitter.com/wdmorrisjr/status/1510605658441326606
andrewduckerparenting childrenhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:2309c2ac52c4/Hilarious discussion of children being emotionally devastating2022-04-09T07:53:50+00:00
https://twitter.com/bessbell/status/1512454364635443204?t=F8_nlIuahIdVSAi21ZcwOA&s=09
andrewduckerchildren funny parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:3046a1392799/How to change children's behaviour2022-03-25T15:35:16+00:00
https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/tmw0e3/since_spanking_is_considered_abuse_how_do_you/i1zvgq4/?context=3
andrewduckerbehaviour children viaSwampers parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:a9f3b8d7d9e7/A mother’s early life experiences of adversity can influence her baby’s sensitivity to stress2022-03-16T10:28:10+00:00
https://digest.bps.org.uk/2022/03/15/a-mothers-early-life-experiences-of-adversity-can-influence-her-babys-sensitivity-to-stress/
andrewduckerstress parenting mother children psychologyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:3d1049eb93d9/What do parents' houses really look like?2022-02-28T10:18:27+00:00
https://twitter.com/alkellzz/status/1497752918585483264?t=UtzuCyfvgLKlOLHEeS4BDQ&s=09
andrewduckerhomes children parenting messhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:4f851ec9aff6/Dad takes down town's internet by mistake to get his kids offline2022-02-19T10:55:49+00:00
https://www.bleepingcomputer.com/news/technology/dad-takes-down-towns-internet-by-mistake-to-get-his-kids-offline/
andrewduckerparenting internet oops WiFi Francehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:f5c4d18b1761/What things do parents love about having children?2022-01-08T11:06:28+00:00
https://twitter.com/RoseStokes/status/1479388222723694592?t=vdYnBhnjaRMKzi7JiC4M3Q&s=09
andrewduckerchildren parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:52d45057579e/You Can Skip the First Few Seasons of Your Child’s Life, Because It Doesn’t Really Get Good Until Season 6 (This is remarkably accurate)2022-01-05T08:59:25+00:00
https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/you-can-skip-the-first-few-seasons-of-your-childs-life-because-it-doesnt-really-get-good-until-season-6
andrewduckerchildren satire TV funny parenting viaSwampershttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:c3ae77528be8/The UX on this small child is terrible2022-01-05T07:23:09+00:00
https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/the-ux-on-this-small-child-is-terrible
andrewduckerchildren ux funny parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:63545e30d5d9/Please don't try and force your kids to share your interests.2021-12-21T20:20:34+00:00
https://twitter.com/kittynouveau/status/1473094309629108224?t=Gui0tQ7EhYBIWIYPUj_ARA&s=09
andrewduckerchildren parenting StarWars harrypotter scifihttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:1c874e0ce04a/Companies need more adults in the room.2021-10-17T10:25:48+00:00
https://www.readmargins.com/p/the-teenager-economy
andrewduckereconomy business organisation doom parenting viaDanielDWilliamhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:94015703e628/How To Be A Number One Dad2021-08-11T13:15:17+00:00
https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/number-one-dad
andrewduckerparenting comic truehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:dca850ab0598/No, men don't learn toxic masculinity from their fathers2021-05-08T10:42:25+00:00
https://www.livescience.com/toxic-masculinity-mystery.html?m_i=KLvd9LWzjBxucLrMv4TpFqCuj0hgDnOYPdcX230SW0yDJYt3Nw_abgvPBdmX%252BYdvSU5VwYlHbuPl5Dhg3lBPnCiTv8xHBVz_4B3x2hfKKH&lrh=e49a34034f9993b2bfb67f1784503a6a43c682a335500bdc2f6f384dbf60e570
andrewduckerparenting masculinityhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:d7a900e741ca/Transphobia was always going to end up as crude, old-fashioned homophobia2021-04-06T07:57:47+00:00
https://owenjones84.medium.com/transphobia-was-always-going-to-end-up-as-crude-old-fashioned-homophobia-a98af68b3a73
andrewduckerLGBT transgender parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:218045f2bd69/What if can opener dad, but Suez canal ship2021-03-26T08:42:08+00:00
https://twitter.com/ThomedySci/status/1374990970949828617?s=09
andrewduckermeme shipping satire funny parenting viaSwampershttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:f5fdcabebfaa/Is the British way of raising kids weird?2021-02-25T08:55:28+00:00
https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20210222-the-unusual-ways-western-parents-raise-children?ocid=ww.social.link.facebook
andrewduckerchildren UK USA India Japan parenting sleephttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:080bf4a9c872/Parenting: Three ways to calm your kids during a temper tantrum2021-02-18T15:19:39+00:00
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/kids-temper-tantrum-children-parenting-b1804050.html
andrewduckerchildren emotion psychology parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:093fa9097616/Parents of daughters are more likely to divorce than those with sons - but only once those girls become teenagers2021-02-06T22:18:57+00:00
https://www.economist.com/science-and-technology/2021/02/06/parents-of-daughters-are-more-likely-to-divorce-than-those-with-sons
andrewduckerchildren parenting teenagers girlshttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:5f216eaade4e/Refusing furlough to working mothers shows gender equality is going backwards2021-02-06T21:37:15+00:00
https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/furlough-homeschooling-equality-mothers-lockdown-b1787375.html
andrewduckerparenting pandemic OhForFucksSakehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:04746dfbc512/American Mothers, On the Brink (I assume British mothers are much the same)2021-02-05T21:26:52+00:00
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/02/04/parenting/covid-pandemic-mothers-primal-scream.html
andrewduckerwork pandemic stress women mother children parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:2af23dbd0d87/Self-reliance isn't a starting point, it's a distant goal2021-01-03T23:21:08+00:00
https://twitter.com/ChuckWendig/status/1345737168988364807
andrewduckerparenting learning childrenhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:bca11f75ebed/Here's a really simple way to be better than tin-opener dad2021-01-03T23:17:17+00:00
https://twitter.com/outliersgeorg/status/1345728759815553024
andrewduckerchildren parenting teachinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:9eba1c3924dd/I do not believe this is a good way to teach a nice-year-old (if nothing else I'd hope that by 9 Sophia would Google for an answer)2021-01-03T09:19:56+00:00
https://twitter.com/johnroderick/status/1345508384011816960
andrewduckerchildren WTF parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:616c26a0cca5/"Us against the world" - I worry about this kind of thing regularly now I'm a parent. I hope I can rise to the occasion as well as this.2020-08-10T09:55:23+00:00
https://www.zenpencils.com/comic/world/
andrewduckerchildren parenting comichttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:8134d9e80a59/Yes, balancing work and parenting is impossible. Here’s the data.2020-07-14T21:27:12+00:00
https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/interruptions-parenting-pandemic-work-home/2020/07/09/599032e6-b4ca-11ea-aca5-ebb63d27e1ff_story.html?fbclid=IwAR2umxU5xEx79DTmaIVH_kNeaOPh_CVUWd0s2aoxWwLSCui1N4qHNHKQ1c0&wpisrc=nl_headlines%2522We
andrewduckerwork children parenting pandemichttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:fa1ccf4fe391/On fairy tales and motherhood and being what you do2020-05-10T17:50:56+00:00
https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2020/05/07/fuck-the-bread-the-bread-is-over/?fbclid=IwAR3SHoNpUNhY6R5HEYgpLqQNjVTget8Ut_fH_5Fu9v1srUysVj-OQ1Lt_yg
andrewduckerfairytale motherhood work jobs academia parenting pandemichttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:1e5ce9831300/Parents who didn’t believe in their younger kids watching TV five weeks ago now inching towards 8-hours-a-day of screen time2020-04-22T12:30:02+00:00
https://newsthump.com/2020/04/22/parents-who-didnt-believe-in-their-younger-kids-watching-tv-five-weeks-ago-now-inching-towards-8-hours-a-day-of-screen-time/?fbclid=IwAR1T6Hcj16_C7OZi1BF_ngrHoAHyW-ghJItN3qGMEBrWss4jsoPltUkKAQI
andrewduckerparenting funny viaMyBrotherHughhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:2513c05ac27f/I just started reading this parenting blog a friend of mine writes, and am enjoying it quite a lot2020-03-27T10:48:29+00:00
https://thingstarathinks.com/
andrewduckerparenting blogging childrenhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:34f248581c4c/On children and horror, and how to help children deal with fear2020-03-05T16:13:52+00:00
https://twitter.com/melgillman/status/1235388607705133057?s=09
andrewduckerchildren fear parenting horror comic advice viaJennieRigghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:41be5e75cafe/Friendship Is Crucial to the Adolescent Brain2020-02-17T10:58:11+00:00
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/01/friendship-crucial-adolescent-brain/605638/
andrewduckerfriendship children psychology parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:e297fa3183ae/Do men want to protect their families? Or do they just really love guns?2020-02-05T18:51:41+00:00
https://twitter.com/designmom/status/1225052129238421505?s=09
andrewduckerguns fatherhood parenting safety men societyhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:19e6af0aabe3/Average Parent Spends Just 5 Hours Face-To-Face With Their Kids Per Week (I wonder how different this is to a few decades ago)2020-01-30T13:02:40+00:00
https://www.studyfinds.org/modern-family-average-parent-spends-just-5-hours-face-to-face-with-their-kids-per-week/
andrewduckerviaSwampers children parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:5431bb66bc50/What can parents do to protect their daughters from campus sexual violence?2020-01-17T22:04:31+00:00
https://twitter.com/NBedera/status/1217893350436569088?s=09
andrewduckerassault rape university advice parentinghttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:66d68233bf81/Companies are starting to offer much better parental leave2019-10-31T09:50:41+00:00
https://www.theguardian.com/business/2019/oct/30/standard-life-aberdeen-to-offer-nine-months-of-full-pay-for-new-parents
andrewduckerparenting jobs benefitshttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:3ff8a6209c2b/Reading this account of a woman stabbing her daughter, and am baffled there's no mention of mental health.2019-10-08T14:36:17+00:00
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-49976387
andrewduckerparenting mentalhealth wtfhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:25f8fe302ce0/13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do2019-08-14T12:14:54+00:00
https://www.forbes.com/sites/amymorin/2017/09/18/13-things-mentally-strong-parents-dont-do/#472ad2594273
andrewduckerparenting advicehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:fd3e115c426d/Black dads are the most engaged dads in the USA2019-06-16T16:05:44+00:00
https://twitter.com/DrIbram/status/1140267091167240193?s=09
andrewduckerUSA fatherhood parenting racehttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:5eb8f990a14a/Autism: "What If Trains, But Too Much?"2019-06-03T11:14:34+00:00
https://twitter.com/Nicole_Cliffe/status/1135281342575329280?s=09
andrewduckerchildren autism parenting behaviourhttps://pinboard.in/u:andrewducker/b:0dd43232b806/