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Coontz will discuss the history and present state of government intervention in private relationships with Adam Davis, executive director of Oregon Humanities.

Stephanie Coontz teaches history and family studies at the Evergreen State College in Olympia, Washington, and serves as director of research and public education at the Council on Contemporary Families. She is the author of seven books on marriage and family life, including A Strange Stirring: The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960s, Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage, and The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[the invisibility part. 

There was also my splendid colleague Bob Bingham, dying in his late fifties, who was asked by a friend what he’d missed or would do differently if given the chance. He thought for an instant, and said, “More venery.”

More venery. More love; more closeness; more sex and romance. Bring it back, no matter what, no matter how old we are. This fervent cry of ours has been certified by Simone de Beauvoir and Alice Munro and Laurence Olivier and any number of remarried or recoupled ancient classmates of ours. Laurence Olivier? I’m thinking of what he says somewhere in an interview: “Inside, we’re all seventeen, with red lips.”]]></description>
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Try to make the life decisions your 37-year-old self would want you to make, not the ones the seven-year-old you fantasized about. Want the marriage, knowing all that it will demand of you. Want the child, realizing that her needs will come first for the next 20 years. Choose the man who will take care of the laundry and change the baby's diapers when you've got the flu, rather than the one who spent a month choreographing his proposal so that the video of it would go viral. Understand what you're getting into and put your energy into planning your union, not planning your wedding. That's the key to a happy marriage and a happy life.]]></description>
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The pair, who filed their suit in US District Court in Boston, say they have filed amended returns listing them as married for 2007 and 2009 and want a refund on their taxes for those years, based on the lower rate charged a married couple versus two single people.

A year ago, the US Court of Appeals for the First Circuit ruled that the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which the IRS uses to define "married" was unconstitutional. The Supreme Court is currently considering the law.

Henry and Humphrey married in 2004, a few months after the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled same-sex couples have the right to marry.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2013-03-24T20:33:13+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.oregonlive.com/today/index.ssf/2013/03/lesbian_couple_at_center_of_ga.html</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[But the couple has been riding a marriage rollercoaster since 2003, when Perry first asked Stier to marry her. They were planning a symbolic, but not legally recognized, wedding when San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom ordered city officials to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples in 2004. So they were married, but only briefly. Six months later, the state Supreme Court invalidated the same-sex unions.

They went ahead with their plans anyway, but "it was one of the sadder points of our wedding," Perry said.

Less than four years later, however, the same state court overturned California's prohibition on same-sex unions. Then, on the same day Perry and Stier rejoiced in President Barack Obama's election, voters approved Proposition 8, undoing the court ruling and defining marriage as the union of a man and a woman. Their lawsuit was filed six months later, after they went to the Alameda County courthouse for a marriage license and were predictably refused.]]></description>
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    <title>The Zapatista Women's Revolutionary Law</title>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA["taking into account the situation of the woman worker in Mexico, the [Zapatista]
revolution incorporates their just demands of equality and justice in the following
Women's Revolutionary Law:

1. Women, regardless of their race, creed, colour or political affiliation, have a
   right to participate in the revolutionary struggle in any way that their desire
   and capacity determine. 
2. Women have the right to work and receive a just salary. 
3. Women have the right to decide the number of children they have and care for. 
4. Women have the right to participate in the matters of the community and to take
   charge if they are freely and democratically elected. 
5. Women and their children have the right to primary attention in their health and
   nutrition. 
6. Women have the right to education. 
7. Women have the right to choose their partner and are not obliged to enter into
   marriage. 
8. Women have the right to be free of violence from both relatives and strangers.
   Rape and attempted rape will be severely punished. 
9. Women will be able to occupy positions of leadership in the organization and
   hold military ranks in the revolutionary armed forces. 
10. Women will have all the rights and obligations which the revolutionary laws and
   regulations give." 


Translated by Matt Miscreant of the Love and Rage revolutionary anarchist
federation in New York, USA. Courtesy of the Freedom Socialist Party (Canada), who
reprinted it from Kenesis Newspaper, February 1994.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2013-01-29T09:51:29+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.buzzfeed.com/chrisgeidner/obama-will-include-same-sex-couples-in-immigration</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A Democratic source said: "Same-sex couples will be part of his proposal." A second source confirmed that, unlike the Senate framework released Monday, same-sex bi-national couples — those with one American and one foreign partner — will be included in the White House principles.
The decision by Obama seeks to remedy what advocates for same-sex couples view as one of the most searing inequalities under the existing federal limit on marriage to one man and one woman: LGBT American citizens simply have no way to confer citizenship on their romantic partners, something that is automatic — if not always simple — for straight couples.
Under current law, such same-sex couples, even when married under state law, are not eligible for the green cards that opposite-sex couples can receive. Foreign partners of same-sex couples have in the past found their green card applications denied — often forcing couples to separate or move abroad.
Although Attorney General Eric Holder and Homeland Security Secretary Janet Napolitano have taken steps to examine the issue and, in some cases, prevent deportation of the foreign same-sex partners of Americans, the Defense of Marriage Act continues to prevent the granting of green cards for such individuals.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2013-01-05T00:15:16+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A 2010 Pew Global Attitudes Project survey that examined attitudes about gender around the world sheds some light on how public opinion in India compares to the other 21 nations surveyed.

Fully 92% of Indians said that women should have equal rights with men. But when asked specifically which gender should take priority in the workplace during tough times or in higher education, attitudes in India are less supportive of gender equality than in many other countries around the world.1 (The survey did not include specific questions about sexual harassment or rape.)

Virtually all Indians (95%) agreed that women should be able to work outside the home. But more than eight-in-ten (84%) said that when jobs are scarce, men “should have more right to a job than women.” That response made India stand out – it was among the highest percentages in the nations surveyed; a similar percentage (82%) said this in Pakistan.

By comparison, 97% of Americans said women should be able to work outside the home, while just 14% said that when jobs are scarce, men should have more right to a job. That was among the lowest percentage on this question, comparable to the 12% that said this in Britain and Spain.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[What advice would you give to new couples today?

Marcoux: God, that's just a terror of a question. To know it's not easy, and leave if it's toxic. Wait long enough to know whether or not it's toxic or just a pain. And be in love with love.

Woodworth: The main thing that I come back to is commitment. You have to decide from the very beginning whether it's going to be a committed relationship for a long period or if it's just going to be as long as it lasts. Which is what most people do. They fall in love with lust instead of love. And they think that when the sex starts getting bad, that's the end of the relationship. That's the beginning of the relationship! That's when you start working on it.

Q: What's the biggest lesson about love and partnership you've learned along the way?

Woodworth: It never lets up.

Marcoux: To be more gentle toward my own vulnerabilities and to his inadequacies, because they disappoint him as well as me. Oh, that didn't make any sense at all.]]></description>
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    <title>» Does Infidelity Really End Relationships? Dollars &amp; Sex</title>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A new paper, by researchers in Norway, addresses this issue and finds that despite the perception that infidelity is a leading cause of breakup (from either marriage or a cohabitating relationship) they find little evidence that this is the case.

Many people (6 out of every 10) in this survey admitted to having engaged in some form of infidelity at some point in their lives. In most of those cases, however, the infidelity did not involve sexual intercourse – the majority reported having fallen in love with another person (30%) or having kissed another person (32%) without further sexual contact while in a committed relationship.

Among both men and women below the age of 50 (which is the age group that experiences the highest level of martial infidelity), infidelity does not appear among the top three causes of relationship break-up. Those are: lost love (47%), quarrelling (30%) and boredom (29%). (Participants could give up to three reasons.)

They do find that infidelity is among the top four reasons men and women over the age of 50 have experienced a break-up, along with lost love (tied with infidelity at 38%) and “other” and quarrelling (tied with 27% each). But even that result doesn’t prove that infidelity is the direct cause of relationship dissolution. It simply says that older men and women are reluctant to leave an existing relationship until the have secured a new partner; an unsurprising result given how difficult it can be to find love in later stages of life.

Psychologists Denise Previti and Paul Amato provide the most convincing evidence that infidelity is not a direct cause of divorce using couple-specific data collected over seventeen years. Their research concludes that men and women who are already likely to divorce are more likely to have had sex outside of their marriage; infidelity in is the consequence, not the direct cause, of an already unhappy marriage.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Last night, I was perusing the shelf of Powell's "weird books" shelf (Orange Room, near the book buyers, absolute goldmine) and came across this gem from 1946:

While the cover promises a digest on "the science of keeping clean, health, and happy!" the 92-page pamphlet is really about the secrets of sex and marriage. It's interesting to reflect on how much we've changed our attitudes toward sex and gender roles in the past 60 years—and how we haven't.


4. Your libido depends on race and social class. The manual actually has a rather forward-thinking attitude to women's sexuality, tossing out the Victorian belief that most women do not enjoy sex and saying instead that almost all women enjoy sex and couples should frankly discuss their "manner of love making" to find methods that both parties enjoy. BUT, the medical experts also embraced Progressive notions, noting that female "frigidity" varies according to country and "social stratum": "North America contains the most frigid women and they are much rarer in Latin countries."
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[We might assume that the political issue would be addressed at the beginning -- during dating. Political opposites would be eliminated the way a PETA member would write off a dove hunter.

The much-quoted Match.com survey, "Singles in America", says: not necessarily. Only 17 percent of men and 20 percent of women said that someone of the same party was a "must have." Compare that to 65 percent who said they must have respect, trust and the ability to confide in each other.

Overall, 57 percent of singles said they would marry someone with dramatically different political beliefs. That seems to make it more of a consideration than a deal breaker -- perhaps on the order of your significant other's position on reality shows.

Surveys do find one interesting political difference. Conservative Republicans are more likely to want someone who shares their values. But they are more likely than Democrats to cross party lines to find romance -- something James Carville attributes to the fact that "Democrats are hotter."

When dating progresses to marriage, there is research evidence that opinions tend to blend over time. Husbands used to dominate the shift. More recent surveys show a more mutual convergence.

Still, there are limits. Our political persuasion is a potent combination of genetics, family and where we grew up. The Match.com survey found that almost half hadn't changed a political view in the last ten years; and almost 95 percent had never changed a political belief because of a relationship.

The majority who are willing to cross party lines for love must also confront a fact of 21st century life. In everything from choice of TV news to favorite Internet sites to living in a red or blue state, it's very easy to insulate ourselves from all opinions that are contrary to our own. That hermetic seal is harder to maintain within the walls of a two-party home.

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We purchase cancelled weddings and resell them to new couples.

Sellers recover deposits and upfront costs hassle-free.
Venues and providers enjoy uninterrupted business as usual.
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Register with us and help us build a new market for weddings.]]></description>
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From Carol Beckwith and Angela Fisher’s Lamu: Kenya’s Enchanted Island]]></description>
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    <title>The single life: Results from our survey - The Style Blog - The Washington Post</title>
    <dc:date>2012-04-26T19:18:17+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[According to data from Pew Research Center and the U.S. Census Bureau, there are 96.6 million single Americans. Just 51 percent of the adult population is married, compared with 72 percent in 1960. And a recent Pew/Time Magazine survey found that 39 percent of people think marriage is becoming obsolete.


Our survey was by no means scientific, but it helps to know from whom these responses are coming. The average age of our survey participants was 46.2 years old. Women made up 82 percent of the respondents; men, 18 percent. About 35 percent said their annual income was under $50,000; 41 percent were making between $50,000 and $100,000; and 23 percent bring in more than $100,000 a year.
]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2012-03-29T09:27:56+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.racialicious.com/2012/03/28/the-poverty-of-marriage/</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[The burdens of poverty affect most, if not all aspects, of social relations. Most prominently (and unsurprisingly), women carry the greatest burden of the social predicaments that arise from a dire lack of economic security.  Women in groups hit hardest by financial strain easily become seen as sources of further strain on their families. Education is often either inaccessible or seen as an unnecessary part of a young girl’s growth and life.

This is not always necessarily the case, as there is much evidence that shows support of girl-child education by, specifically, mothers who realize the role education can play in providing a better life for their children. Yet, despite this, in many instances across the world (primarily in developing countries, but not limited to them), young girls are forced to accept the strain upon their families that they are perceived to pose. This position can lead many young girls, either by coercion by family or by “choice,” onto the road towards prostitution, sex slavery, or even suicide.  Yet perhaps the most common result is marriage.

An article published earlier this month on EurasiaNet explores the impact of poverty on “early marriage” in Tajikistan. The article cites a recent study by the Eurasia Foundation that looks at the issue of “informal justice” in Tajikistan. While looking at a variety of issues, the article dedicates a good amount to gender relations, specifically the issue of non-state-administered justice for women in unregistered marriages, which come in a variety of flavors, one of which is early marriage. Marriage before the age of 18 is illegal under Tajik law and subject to harsh punishment.

However, it is commonly practiced and encouraged by many religious clerics who not only feel it is sanctioned within Islam but also believe it to be a solution to the problems of poverty faced by women in a country ravaged by years of war. ]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2012-03-27T06:36:45+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Program:  Out Loud
Air date:  Tue, 02/14/2012 - 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Short Description:  Queering Sex, Love and Relationships
To celebrate Valentines Day, we are queering sex, love and relationships with a two hour special! It is our Spring Membership Drive, as well, so we're offering some special thank you gifts for new and renewing members!

We welcome Myshkin, from Myshkin's Ruby Warblers, to the show and we'll feature new music from her latest record 'That Diamond Lust'. Myshkin donated copies of this CD and a pair of tickets to her record release show at the Alberta Rose Feb 25! We'll offer these thank you gifts to new and returning members who call during the show!

We also welcome Molly Franks, Health Educator from Multnomah County Health Department's STD/HIV/Hep C programs. Molly will update us on the Health Department's health promotion work, and we discuss latest trends with sexually transmitted infections. She also shares tips for preventing STIs, where to get tested for STIs, and why communication is so important in relationships.

Kyle Z, Certified Clinical Sexologist and a certified Sex Educator, joins the conversation later in the show. Kyle will address common questions about sexual health, and he'll offer tools for self care for healthy relationships.

Have any questions about taking care of your body while you enjoy healthy sexuality? Kyle welcomes questions from the community about sexual health, healthy relationships, preventing sexually transmitted infections, and just about anything you might ask about sex. If you would like to submit questions for Kyle to answer on air, please email us at OutLoudRadio@gmail.com

Tune in Tuesday Feb 14 from 6 to 8pm for queering sex, love and relationships.]]></description>
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    <title>Male circumcision curbs spread of HIV over time, risky behavior does not increase | Science Speaks: HIV &amp; TB News</title>
    <dc:date>2012-03-18T21:20:10+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Three years after the voluntary medical male circumcision (MC) campaign rolled out in the Orange Farm Township in South Africa, the first “real world” results are available showing a marked reduction of HIV acquisition among circumcised adult men with a 55 percent lower HIV prevalence (proportion of HIV-infected people) among circumcised men compared to their uncircumcised counterparts and overall reduction in HIV incidence (the number of new cases) among men 15 to 34 years old of 76 percent.

Earlier randomized controlled studies have shown medical male circumcision to reduce the risk of men acquiring HIV through vaginal sex by up to 60 percent. It is rare indeed for on-the-ground implementation of an intervention to yield even greater efficacy than was measured in a randomized clinical trial.

The ANRS 12126 trial involved 110,000 adults and shows MC roll-out is effective at the community level in curbing the spread of HIV. The free service was offered to all willing male residents 16 years of age and older.]]></description>
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    <title>Like in movie 'Friends with Kids,' babies do strain relationships - USATODAY.com</title>
    <dc:date>2012-03-18T21:15:55+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[More than 25 separate studies in the past two decades find that marital quality takes a dive with a baby's birth: babies raise stress, reduce happiness and otherwise upset the household, experts say. The movie, out Friday, points to that in a tagline: "Love. Happiness. Kids. Pick two."
"Kids do lower marital satisfaction and there's not much we seem to be able to do to prevent it," says Brian Doss, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Miami in Coral Gables, Fla. He is among researchers whose intervention studies haven't succeeded in stopping sharp declines in relationship satisfaction. "The fact that we've been largely unsuccessful may suggest it's a really difficult and tough experience and it's not necessarily a deficit in these couples' relationships or how they're approaching it."
Ninety percent of the 218 couples in an eight-year study Doss co-authored experienced a decline in satisfaction, he says.]]></description>
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    <title>Planet Mozilla Blog » Blog Archive » Concerns with Planet Content</title>
    <dc:date>2012-03-09T05:36:20+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://blog.mozilla.com/planet/2012/03/06/concerns-with-planet-content/</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Homa Sapiens Says: 
March 7th, 2012 at 12:15 pm
Were I to pronounce a distaste for Islamism or Homosexuality or Judaism or Feminism any one of those groups could claim to be a victim of hate speech.

That’s not exactly true. Gerd’s post didn’t merely express a distaste for a large group of people: it also expressed a desire to legally prohibit an important aspect of their lives– an aspect that is entirely legal for another group which Gerd happens to belong to.

That’s what makes it hate speech.

Jonas Sicking Says: 
March 7th, 2012 at 12:20 pm
Graydon’s comment here is great.

Simply saying “we’ll publish anything” is neither a wise policy nor the policy that you actually follow. I won’t express an opinion about if Gerv’s post constitutes hate speech (as that likely varies by country), but if someone were to publish unambigious hate speech I’m pretty sure the person would get kicked off planet and the post removed from the feed.

I also don’t buy the argument made by various commenters here (not the authors of the original blog post) that “well, planet contains a lot of left-wing comments too”. If there are hateful left-wing comments on planet that’s just as bad. It’s not an ok to be exclusionary even if other people have excluded you. That just means that more people are exclusionary. If you anyone putting offensive of exclusionary contents on planet, speak up, even if the contents is left-wing.

Justin Scott (fligtar) Says: 
March 7th, 2012 at 1:16 pm
Some of the comments and blog post replies seem to miss the very important point that just because *you* aren’t made to feel unwelcome or demeaned by someone’s comments doesn’t mean that others aren’t.

If you see the post as purely a political opinion, that’s your perspective. To others, the post made them feel unwelcome and demeaned, and broke their trust in Planet Mozilla and/or Mozilla. Please respect that and don’t dismiss them simply because you don’t see it that way.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2012-02-18T19:24:39+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[The increasing popularity of intermarriage. About 15% of all new marriages in the United States in 2010 were between spouses of a different race or ethnicity from one another, more than double the share in 1980 (6.7%). Among all newlyweds in 2010, 9% of whites, 17% of blacks, 26% of Hispanics and 28% of Asians married out. Looking at all married couples in 2010, regardless of when they married, the share of intermarriages reached an all-time high of 8.4%. In 1980, that share was just 3.2%.
Gender patterns in intermarriage vary widely. About 24% of all black male newlyweds in 2010 married outside their race, compared with just 9% of black female newlyweds. Among Asians, the gender pattern runs the other way. About 36% of Asian female newlyweds married outside their race in 2010, compared with just 17% of Asian male newlyweds. Intermarriage rates among white and Hispanic newlyweds do not vary by gender.
At first glance, recent newlyweds who “married out” and those who “married in” have similar characteristics. In 2008-2010, the median combined annual earnings of both groups are similar—$56,711 for newlyweds who married out versus $55,000 for those who married in. In about one-in-five marriages of each group, both the husband and wife are college graduates. Spouses in the two groups also marry at similar ages (with a two- to three-year age gap between husband and wife), and an equal share are marrying for the first time.
However, these overall similarities mask sharp differences that emerge when the analysis looks in more detail at pairings by race and ethnicity. Some of these differences appear to reflect the overall characteristics of different groups in society at large, and some may be a result of a selection process. For example, white/Asian newlyweds of 2008 through 2010 have significantly higher median combined annual earnings ($70,952) than do any other pairing, including both white/white ($60,000) and Asian/Asian ($62,000). When it comes to educational characteristics, more than half of white newlyweds who marry Asians have a college degree, compared with roughly a third of white newlyweds who married whites. Among Hispanics and blacks, newlyweds who married whites tend to have higher educational attainment than do those who married within their own racial or ethnic group.
Intermarriage and earnings. Couples formed between an Asian husband and a white wife topped the median earning list among all newlyweds in 2008-2010 ($71,800). During this period, white male newlyweds who married Asian, Hispanic or black spouses had higher combined earnings than did white male newlyweds who married a white spouse. As for white female newlyweds, those who married a Hispanic or black husband had somewhat lower combined earnings than those who “married in,” while those who married an Asian husband had significantly higher combined earnings.
Regional differences. Intermarriage in the United States tilts West. About one-in-five (22%) of all newlyweds in Western states married someone of a different race or ethnicity between 2008 and 2010, compared with 14% in the South, 13% in the Northeast and 11% in the Midwest. At the state level, more than four-in-ten (42%) newlyweds in Hawaii between 2008 and 2010 were intermarried; the other states with an intermarriage rate of 20% or more are all west of the Mississippi River. (For rates of intermarriage as well as intra-marriage in all 50 states, see Appendix 2.)
Is more intermarriage good for society? More than four-in-ten Americans (43%) say that more people of different races marrying each other has been a change for the better in our society, while 11% say it has been a change for the worse and 44% say it has made no difference. Minorities, younger adults, the college-educated, those who describe themselves as liberal and those who live in the Northeast or the West are more disposed than others to see intermarriage in a positive light.
Public’s acceptance of intermarriage. More than one-third of Americans (35%) say that a member of their immediate family or a close relative is currently married to someone of a different race. Also, nearly two-thirds of Americans (63%) say it “would be fine” with them if a member of their own family were to marry someone outside their own racial or ethnic group. In 1986, the public was divided about this. Nearly three-in-ten Americans (28%) said people of different races marrying each other was not acceptable for anyone, and an additional 37% said this may be acceptable for others, but not for themselves. Only one-third of the public (33%) viewed intermarriage as acceptable for everyone.
Divorce. Several studies using government data have found that overall divorce rates are higher for couples who married out than for those who married in – but here, too, the patterns vary by the racial and gender characteristics of the couples. These findings are based on scholarly analysis of government data on marriage and divorce collected over the past two decades.]]></description>
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    <title>Here's Why Your Relationship is Doomed, and Other Confessions of a Therapist</title>
    <dc:date>2012-02-16T21:27:10+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://gawker.com/5884471/heres-why-your-relationship-is-doomed-and-other-confessions-of-a-therapist</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[You need to understand that humans are fucked up creatures. It's very difficult for anyone to change. Abuse is cyclical in nature, meaning we often repeat what we have seen or endured through perpetration or victimization later in life. A child who is witness to or the victim of consistent abuse may not take on the behavioral patterns as an adult, but he or she still knows the process like the back of their hand. We engage in dysfunctional behavior even if we are aware of its effects because it is comfortable.

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    <title>New Federal Housing Rules Redefine &quot;Family&quot; To Include LGBT Folks | Blogtown, PDX</title>
    <dc:date>2012-02-06T19:20:33+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[While the official definition of marriage as a right shared only between one man and one woman still stands on the federal lawbooks, one federal department has made its official definition of family more queer-friendly.
Today, the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) announced that it has formally rewritten its official definition of "family" that's used to determine eligibility for public housing. The official "family" already specifically includes people without kids and single people, but under today's new rules this simple sentence is added onto the official family definition: “Family includes but is not limited to the following, regardless of actual or perceived sexual orientation, gender identity, or marital status...”

HUD has been attacking housing discrimination against LGBT folks for the last few years, launching studies of discrimination and updating its policies to make it clear that it's against the rules to ban someone from public housing because of their gender identity or sexual orientation.

Oregon is one of 20 states with laws that already prohibit housing discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. Asked about the HUD change two weeks ago, Portland Housing Commissioner Nick Fish said, "For a federal government that's been unable to move on marriage equality, to say that discrimination based on orientation is unacceptable is a big deal. It's a big step forward for establishing the rights of a whole class of people."]]></description>
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    <title>Set Match: My Five Minutes of Muslim Speed Dating - Lifestyle - GOOD</title>
    <dc:date>2012-01-25T20:07:16+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.good.is/post/set-match-my-five-minutes-of-muslim-speed-dating/</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A quick note about arranged marriages in South Asian Muslim culture: They’re not forced, “blind”, or mandatory, especially not in 2012 New York. Gone are the days when girls would strut in front of a man’s family, serve chai, and share a special talent to impress her possible in-laws. Professional matchmakers and house visits still exist, but the internet has made it easier for men, women, and (of course) their parents to cast a wide net and connect with people from all over the country who share their values and interests. There’s also the alternative track: a “love marriage,” in which two people meet, fall in love, and marry without any assistance or interference from their families. This is what the average American would expect out of marriage. My parents are not thrilled with this idea.


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    <title>Angry Brides: A Mind-Boggling Video Game About Domestic Violence</title>
    <dc:date>2012-01-20T20:43:33+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Angry Brides, a Facebook game in which you play an angry Indian wife who bludgeons her husband with frying pans and shoes.

Totally sexist, right? But the company that made it, Indian dating site Shaadi, has discovered a loop hole for offensiveness: "creating awareness."

Full size
Shaadi says Angry Brides "creates awareness" about dowry-related abuse, which is when a groom's family abuses a bride to blackmail her family into paying additional dowry money post-nuptials. India recorded 8400 dowry-related deaths in 2010, plus "90,000 cases of torture and cruelty toward women by their husbands or family."

To express contempt for dowries, Shaadi encourages Facebook users to bludgeon their virtual husbands with virtual household objects. Here I am selecting a shoe to throw at my doctor husband. Every time I hit him, I earned money for my "anti-dowry fund," which is basically just a scoreboard, because it's not like Shaadi is giving money to charity or anything.

And so we return to the central conundrum: Does Shaadi's purported positive intent justify the ludicrously mixed message of combating domestic violence with more domestic violence? Or is everyone just a capitalist pig, and Angry Birds knock-offs are dumb, the end.]]></description>
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    <title>Marry Him! - Magazine - The Atlantic</title>
    <dc:date>2012-01-20T15:39:27+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2008/03/marry-him/6651/#.TxcmEHj9Uj8.twitter</link>
    <dc:creator>theeditedword</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I read this article when it first appeared in the Atlantic, and after stumbling upon it again, I take issue with some of the author's, well... issues. 

I think this is a very instructive piece in that it touches on the bizarre frame of mind a lot of women work themselves into that pretty much assures they will never find a man. The requirements for the author's Mr. Right are ludicrously abstract and laughably childish. He must “delight in the small things,” have a sense of “wonderment,” “view the world” in the same way, and be “curious.” What the hell is that supposed to mean? Even if a man existed who possessed those qualities, how would you be able to tell? Listen up ladies: if these “requirements” are on your checklist for keeping a man at any point in your life, you are a lunatic. 

Delving a little deeper reveals what Ms. Gottlieb really thinks a man’s role should be in a marriage. He’s just someone to take “out the trash and set up the baby gear, and he provides a second income.” In other words, a cash machine/servant/babysitter who you never have to have sex with, but will still massage your back for way longer than “two minutes.” Sounds lovely, where do I sign up? Realistically, the author should just marry some poor sap and promptly get divorced, since a transfer of material wealth without any real human contact will allow her to dote on her precious, male role-model-less kid undisturbed. Either that, or just admit she’s a lesbian. ]]></description>
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