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recent bookmarks from robertogrecoJust about anybody in America can officiate a wedding, thanks to the internet — and one determined preacher | University of California2024-03-19T19:43:50+00:00
https://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/news/just-about-anybody-america-can-officiate-wedding-thanks-internet-and-one-determined-preacher
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/09/opinion/ezra-klein-kristen-ghodsee.html
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/02/28/wendell-berrys-advice-for-a-cataclysmic-age
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https://www.dissentmagazine.org/article/the-family-lottery
robertogrecoChildren could pass through multiple households and living arrangements as they grow up—including time in children-centered group housing—always within a building or short walk from the original group of adults who they may identify as their parents.
In the 1970s, the radical feminists Shulamith Firestone and Marge Piercy’s respective speculative blueprints for a post-familial future echoed this central premise of Fourier’s: children should be parented plurally and not as property, and they should be free to transfer out of households if they wish. In other words, family abolitionism puts children’s freedom at the heart of society.
Survival is not to be sniffed at. Even within straight bourgeois biological families, liberatory practices of love can sometimes be found and learned from. However, the puniness of contemporary left ambition, which dares not target or even criticize the family, should be recognized for what it is. The family was a prime target of socialist rhetoric fifty years ago, and arguably the prime object of feminist and queer critique (feminism identifying it as a thief of love’s labors, a social factory; queer liberation as a site of violence and death). I believe the time is right for us to make it so again. Why should all housing, healthcare, elder care, child care, and education be universally free, decommodified and democratically run? Not least because we all deserve, as both providers and beneficiaries of these things, more than the lottery that is family. We deserve a “feminist city,” as utopian geographers once called it; an end to birth certificates, surnames, inheritance, private insurance, and all privileges afforded by legal marriage. These are some of the ideas that could help our racially and class-stratified societies transform into comradely ones, such that they no longer need, nor even understand the bizarre premise of, the family.”]]>sophielewis 2021 economics socialism families communism familyabolitionism abolitionism abolition queer patriarchy hierarchy accidentofbirth shulamithfirestone margepiercy children childhood alexandrakollontai 1960s indigeneity indigenous race racism sexism radicalism marginalization phalanstery liberation freedom marriage democracy queerliberationhttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:robertogreco/b:fb2e3c5154d1/Debating Glenn Loury: Are Racial Disparities Caused by "Culture"? - YouTube2021-08-01T23:21:54+00:00
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLK68dagC6E
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adC6sJS7Zj4&t=1223
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https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/19/us/barbara-smith-black-queer-rights.html
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https://twitter.com/thrasherxy/status/1200990296470904832
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as legal adults who are basically hostages for the means of life itself, their parents can wield homophobia over them. Demand their trans “adult children” not get hormones or gender affirming surgery. Deny birth control. Wield stigma.
It’s not good, and it makes no legal sense.
No wonder old Dems like the youngest candidate (Pete) & young Dems like the oldest (Bernie):
Pete is trying to reinforce the existing, conservative social order.
Bernie is offering something akin to queer liberation by way of liberated access to learning & health.”]]>medicareforall healthcare infantilization policy us heteronormativity sexuality petebuttigieg berniesanders insurance healthinsurance marriage neoliberalism patriarchy conservatism democrats election 2019 2020 queer liberation health education highered highereducation financialaid control parents learninghttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:robertogreco/b:c24846b97e66/America Without Family, God, or Patriotism - The Atlantic2019-09-06T17:10:59+00:00
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/09/america-without-family-god-or-patriotism/597382/
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https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/30/opinion/trump-religion.html
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sayaka_Murata
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https://www.self-directed.org/tp/you-cant-ruin-your-kids/
robertogrecoParents are meant to be dominant over their children. They are meant to be in charge. But nowadays they are so hesitant about exerting their authority — a hesitancy imposed upon them by the advice-givers — that it is difficult for them to run the home in an effective manner. . . . The experiences of previous generations show that it is possible to rear well-adjusted children without making them feel that they are the center of the universe or that a time-out is the worst thing that could happen to them if they disobey. Parents know better than their children and should not feel diffident about telling them what to do. Parents, too, have a right to a happy and peaceful home life. In traditional societies, parents are not pals. They are not playmates. The idea that parents should have to entertain their children is bizarre to people in these societies. They would fall down laughing if you tried to tell them about “quality time.”
The message again is: Think of the parent-child relationship more like that of a healthy friendship or marriage. Hold them to a normal standards. Be frank and direct with them. Don’t worry about constantly entertaining them or monitoring their emotions. And whenever possible, Harris, says enjoy yourself! “Parents are meant to enjoy parenting. If you are not enjoying it, maybe you’re working too hard.”
In the end, Harris wants to free us from the guilt, anxiety, and fear that plagues so much of modern parenting, largely bred from the “advice-givers” who have convinced us that parenting is a science and you’re responsible for its outcomes:
You’ve followed their advice and where has it got you? They’ve made you feel guilty if you don’t love all your children equally, though it’s not your fault if nature made some kids more lovable than others. They’ve made you feel guilty if you don’t give them enough quality time, though your kids seem to prefer to spend their quality time with their friends. They’ve made you feel guilty if you don’t give your kids two parents, one of each sex, though there is no unambiguous evidence that it matters in the long run. They’ve made you feel guilty if you hit your child, though big hominids have been hitting little ones for millions of years. Worst of all, they’ve made you feel guilty if anything goes wrong with your child. It’s easy to blame parents for everything: they’re sitting ducks. Fair game ever since Freud lit his first cigar.
Take care of the basics. Give your kid a home and keep them healthy. Connect them to positive peer groups. Teach them what you can. Build a home life that works for everyone. Try to enjoy the person who your child is. Do your best to build a bond between child and parent that will last for a lifetime. This is what Judith Rich Harris says we can do.
But when it comes to influencing your child’s behavior, personality, attitudes, and knowledge in the long run: stop. Recognize how little impact you have, give up the illusion of control, and relax. We can neither perfect nor ruin our children, Harris says: “They are not yours to perfect or ruin: they belong to tomorrow.”"]]>blakeboles parenting children nature nurture environment naturenurture genetics relationships respect peers conformity social youth adolescence religion belonging authority authoritarianism marriage society schools schooling education learning internet online youtube web socialmedia influence bullying condescension micromanagement judithrichharris books toread canon culture class youthculturehttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:robertogreco/b:bd8e818c909a/Martin Heavy Head on Twitter: "Nuclear families also seem to enable the mini dictator Father. Head of the household who abuses and dominates everyone as he has no power outside that "home.""2018-05-23T06:08:20+00:00
https://twitter.com/mheavyhead/status/998639347619454977
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDGAmZhpc0A
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https://catalyst-journal.com/vol1/no4/capitalism-and-the-family-an-interview-with-stephanie-coontz
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSQgCy_iIcc
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https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2016/09/22-maps-that-explore-modern-america
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdb4XGVTHkE
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http://tumblr.austinkleon.com/post/124777756421
robertogrecoThat was the way I learned. I stood over their shoulders, and learned how graphic design is done. But I was always the boss. It has been a curious phenomenon in my life that I’ve continued pretty much throughout my career; I would try to get the job I couldn’t get, and not know how to do it, and then I would hire people who did know how to do it, and I would direct them. That to me is always the ideal way to work, because you learn very quickly and you have the means to do something, and yet you know nothing about the field, so you can do something original.
3. As soon as you learn how to do something, move on.
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I did two of a number of things. The first one, you fuck it up in an interesting way; the second one, you get it right; and then you’re out of there… I think as long as I don’t know how to do something, I can do it well; and as soon as I have learned how to do something, I will do it less well, because it will be more obvious. I think that goes for most people. I think most people spend too much time doing one thing.
4. Having a style is a kind of death.
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David Byrne, for whom Kalman designed many album covers, including Remain In Light:
Tibor and company don’t have a signature style, and that is a worthy ambition in life…. Having a recognizable style relegates you to the status of quotable icon. And while being an icon is flattering, I imagine, once it happens, you become irrelevent.
My own ambition is to write a song that sounds like I stole it—like “I” didn’t write it, but it has always been there. To get the “I” out of the song is the ultimate compositional coup, whether in music or design.
5. Visual literacy isn’t enough. Designers have to read everything.
Kalman said that “an enormous amount of graphic design is made by people who look at pictures but don’t know how to think about them.”
I started asking job candidates, “What have you read in the last year?” Because I suddenly began to realize that the difference between a good and a bad designer is how much did they know about everything else—biology, history. Because graphic design is just a means of communication, a language, and what you choose to communicate, and how and why on a particular project, that is all the interesting stuff.
6. You don’t necessarily have to be visually motivated to be a designer.
Rick Poynor on Kalman’s red-green colorblindness (I have it, too):
Most designers are designers because of an exceptional intensity in their response to visual form coupled with a degree of talent for manipulating it. Kalman is unusual among those who choose design as a profession in not being a visually motivated person in this sense. He is red-green color blind and, although this is not severe, it means that he treats color as an “idea” rather than as a sensation to which he responds according to intuition or taste. He will know intellectually that “sky blue” is called for to get an effect he wants to achieve without being able to specify for himself which shade of blue it should be.
7. Don’t steal the style, steal the thinking behind the style.
Kalman said it was okay to borrow ideas, but “transform” is the key word: you have to know the context of the ideas and not de-contextualize them, but re-contextualize them:
Reference means just that: You refer to something. It gives you an idea. You create something new.
Real modernism is filled with historical reference and allusion. And in some of the best design today, historical references are used very eloquently. But those examples were produced with an interest in re-contextualizing sources rather than de-contextualizing them.
There’s an important difference between making an allusion and doing a knock-off. Good historicism is… an investigation of the strategies, procedures, methods, routes, theories, tactics, schemes, and modes through which people have worked creatively…. We need to learn from and interrogate our past, not endlessly repeat its recipes.
8. Photographs are neither true nor false.
Early in the history of photography models were used to enact situations for a camera to record. Later, we learned how to retouch images, first by hand, later by rearranging the tiny dots that make up the images. Meanwhile, there has always been the cheapest and easiest way of making photographs lie—simply changing the caption to change the meaning of the image. Some people accept this but still argue the photograph remains in some way uniquely “honest.” They say that for it to exist, some kind of real-life situation also had to exist. They claim that the fact that a camera can be set up by remote control to record whatever passes in front of it somehow confers objectivity. They cling to the idea that the photograph is an inherently “real” or honest image and as such is always on a different plan from an obviously subjective form of visual communication, such as painting. However, I believe that photography is just like painting and that it can lie just as effectively. I do not accept that there is necessarily a “true” moment that the camera captures, because that moment can be manipulated as much as anything else.
9. Children give you new ways of looking at things.
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We chose to increase the complexity of our lives by having children. The greatest benefit of having those children has been to look at the world through their eyes and to understand their level of curiosity and to learn things the way they learn things.
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10. Marry well.
At first, I only new Tibor Kalman as Maira Kalman’s late husband. Isaac Mizrahi might argue that’s as it should be:
Tibor’s most brilliant contribution was to marry Maira. If he hadn’t, I would have. I don’t mean to sound corny and romantic, just that his relationship with her is a work of art. She has an incredible in-born ability to be a touchstone, and pick out what’s good in a room, whether it’s a screenplay, a piece of music, or a piece of furniture. I never think of them seperately, or, his sense of humor or her sense of humor, I think about them together, how much he owes to her and she owes to him.
Maira Kalman painted the closing pages of the book:
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It’s out-of-print and can be a little hard to get your hands on, but anyone interested in design should give Tibor Kalman: Perverse Optimist a read."]]>tiborkalman mairakalman design graphicdesign howwelearn learning lifelonglearning reading photography complexity parenting children howwework style aesthetics thinking howwethink vidualliteracy literacy visuals steallikeanartist influences canon reality truth isaacmizrahi marriage partnerships context invention creativity classideas favoritebooks rickpoynor davidbyrne talkingheads failure careers work education unschooling deschooling interdisciplinary transdisciplinaryhttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:robertogreco/b:32b12de0ce93/Marriage Equality Is a Win for Single People Too -- The Cut2015-07-01T20:29:11+00:00
http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/06/marriage-equality-is-a-win-for-single-people-too.html
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http://www.patheos.com/blogs/catholicauthenticity/2015/06/hooray-for-same-sex-concubinage/
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http://kottke.org/15/05/the-centripetal-force-of-life
robertogrecoSince we had met, when she was still a teenager, I had loved her with my whole self. Only now can I look back on the fullness of our affection; at the time I could see nothing but one wound at a time, a hole the size of a dime, into which I needed to pack a fistful of material. Love wasn't something I felt anymore. It was just something I did. When I finished, I would lie next to her and use sterile cotton balls to soak up her tears. When she finally slept, I would slip out of bed and go into our closet, the most isolated room in the house. Inside, I would wrap a blanket around my head, stuff it into my mouth, lie down and bury my head in a pile of dirty clothes, and scream.
There are very specific parts of all those stories that I identify with. I struggle with friendship. And with family. I worry about my children, about my relationships with them. I worry about being a good parent, about being a good parenting partner with their mom. How much of me do I really want to impart to them? I want them to be better than me, but I can't tell them or show them how to do that because I'm me. I took my best shot at being better and me is all I came up with. What if I'm just giving them the bad parts, without even realizing it? God, this is way too much for a Monday."]]>parenting cv fathers jasonkottke children self-doubt humans humanness relationships friendships fatherhood families kindness matthewteague death health cancer marriage selflessness lovehttps://pinboard.in/https://pinboard.in/u:robertogreco/b:b25fe4bebeea/Two sentences that perfectly capture what it means to be privileged in America today - Vox2015-04-09T23:53:14+00:00
http://www.vox.com/2015/4/8/8325613/privilege-anand-giridharadas-ted
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http://www.psmag.com/health-and-behavior/lovely-wife-psych-ward-95567
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https://al3x.net/2014/04/23/mob.html
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http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1982/02/have-you-ever-tried-to-sell-a-diamond/304575/?single_page=true
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http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/laurie-andersons-farewell-to-lou-reed-a-rolling-stone-exclusive-20131106?print=true
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http://www.chesnok.com/daily/2012/08/03/leveling-up-handling-conflict-like-a-boss/
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http://www.johilder.com/?p=2896
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http://blog.ableparris.com/post/19784164942/moments-ten-year-anniversary
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http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2012/01/01/magazine/look-loving-versus-bigotry.html
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