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    <title>What If We Said Chores And Allowance Should Have No Bearing On One Another? | You Need a Budget</title>
    <dc:date>2017-04-10T21:52:00+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[We give them money—an allowance, totally independent of chores—so they can learn how to manage money.
We used to attach commissions to different jobs. When we ran into some quality control issues, then we were paying based on how well your chores were done, how few times we had to ask you to do them, or whether or not Mom was in a good mood when payment came due. It was impossible to be consistent. Not to mention it felt like anytime we asked them to do something they were expecting to get paid. The balance was all off.
Now, we pay our kids an allowance every week. It is the same amount, every single time. It has nothing to do with chores or behavior. You just get it.
Part of me still reacts a little bit like, “No! That’s not right! You don’t just get money. What are we teaching these kids if you just get money automatically for breathing?” But we are very disciplined when it comes to chores.
Work Isn’t Just About Money
We’re teaching them to work. Everyone does their chores, everyone is contributing to the family. This isn’t something you get paid for. You don’t get an extra gold star. It is just what is expected. It’s just a part of being in our family.
Money Management Must Be Taught
And we’re teaching them to manage their money. The whole point of the allowance is to let them experience holding money, handling money, losing money, saving money—managing money. It takes practice. You must battle with your own emotions, weigh your own priorities, experience the consequences. The allowance provides valuable practice.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2016-01-18T14:08:31+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Det vanligaste felet som vuxna gör med ”bråkiga” barn är att skälla på dem, enligt psykologen Bo Hejlskov Elvén. Det gäller att utgå ifrån barnets förmåga – inte att visa vem det är som bestämmer.

Hur gör man när ens ”vanliga” barn bråkar? Det låter som en fråga som är lätt att besvara. Men psykologen Bo Hejlskov Elvén får den ganska ofta när han hjälper föräldrar som har barn med särskilda behov.

Ofta upptäcker de att samma råd funkar även med deras andra barn. Det gjorde att han skrev boken ”Barn som bråkar, att hantera känslostarka barn i vardagen” (Natur och kultur) tillsammans med författaren och journalisten Tina Wiman.

Han berättar att en chef en gång påpekade att han försörjer sig på folks maktlöshet.

– Det kanske låter respektlöst, säger han och skrattar, men det är faktiskt det jag gör.

Vilka är då de vanligaste felen som vuxna gör?

– Utskällningar, säger han utan att tveka.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Reykjavík’s biggest shopping street fills with babies sleeping in their strollers in summer. They’re there in the winter, too, napping in sub-zero temperatures. If they’re not on the street, they’re on balconies or in the backyard, while their parents huddle over hot tea indoors.
The custom of wheeling your baby outside to sleep is such a big deal in Iceland that Icelanders who live in big apartment buildings sometimes keep a special carriage on the balcony—for napping only.
 
“Icelanders live more than 10 years longer than the global average.”
 
But why? For a long time, indoor sleeping conditions simply weren’t that great. With poor air circulation and overcrowded living conditions, traditional Icelandic homes were muggy and sometimes smoky from cooking.
In the beginning of the 20th century, a tuberculosis epidemic shook the nation. Around the same time, the baby stroller became available in Iceland, finally widely manufactured and globally available after its invention in the UK almost 200 years earlier. In 1926, Dr. David Thorsteinsson published a pedagogy book in Iceland arguing for the benefits of outdoor life and fresh air to strengthen children’s immune systems.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Would you put your baby outside in the freezing cold for their lunchtime nap?
In Finland and other Nordic countries, it is a completely normal part of raising a child and is widely believed to improve health.
The practice started in the 1940s when child mortality was high and air quality in the home was poor.
It was thought that the sunshine and fresh air would prevent rickets and increase immunity against bacteria.
Although child health has improved considerably during the intervening decades, research shows that there are still benefits to embracing the cold.
Doctors warn, however, that sleeping in the cold may not be suitable for everyone, and that babies should be suitably dressed for cold weather.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Would you put your baby or toddler outside in the freezing cold for their lunchtime nap? Most Nordic parents wouldn't give it a second thought. For them it's part of their daily routine.
Daytime temperatures this winter in Stockholm have regularly dropped to -5C (23F) but it's still common to see children left outside by their parents for a sleep in the pram.
Wander through the snowy city and you'll see buggies lined up outside coffee shops while parents sip on lattes inside.
And if you are visiting friends and your child needs a nap, you may be offered the garden or balcony instead of a bedroom.
"I think it's good for them to be in the fresh air as soon as possible," says Lisa Mardon, a mother-of-three from Stockholm, who works for a food distribution company.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[In 1982, the National Institute of Health announced that no link between sugar and hyperactivity had been scientifically proven. Why, then, does this myth still persist? It may be mostly psychological. As previously stated, experimentation has shown that parents who believe in a link between sugar and hyperactivity see one, even though others do not. Another possibility is that children tend to be more excited at events like birthday and Halloween parties where sugary foods are usually served . People may have confused proximity with correlation although the environment is probably more to blame than the food.]]></description>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Welcome to The NightLight, a guide to the very best stuff for your baby—and you]]></description>
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    <title>The noise of his children playing makes a parent tired and glad to leave for work - Parenting Stack Exchange</title>
    <dc:date>2013-09-24T07:29:26+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I spoke on the phone to an old acquaintance, and he confessed the following:

His second child was born half a year ago, the first child is now three. He goes to work, while his wife stays home with the children. He loves his children deeply and wants to spend time with them. But their activity and noise overwhelms him and causes him stress. He feels he can no longer relax at home, and after a weekend with his family he feels relieved when I can go back to work on Monday. He is deeply ashamed and sad about his feelings.

Unfortunately I live too far away from him to understand what's behind this problem or how it could be solved. Of course you are in the same position, but maybe some of you have experienced something similar and witnessed a solution or at least understood the cause. I'd be happy about your feedback, as I would like to make some helpful suggestions to that poor man.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2013-08-18T21:53:32+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[How to talk to your daughter about her body, step one: don’t talk to your daughter about her body, except to teach her how it works.

Don’t say anything if she’s lost weight. Don’t say anything if she’s gained weight.

If you think your daughter’s body looks amazing, don’t say that. Here are some things you can say instead:

“You look so healthy!” is a great one.

Or how about, “you’re looking so strong.”

“I can see how happy you are – you’re glowing.”

Better yet, compliment her on something that has nothing to do with her body.]]></description>
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    <title>How To Talk To Your Son About His Body | The Belle Jar</title>
    <dc:date>2013-08-18T21:50:53+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://bellejarblog.wordpress.com/2013/08/14/how-to-talk-to-your-son-about-his-body/</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I loved this post on how to talk to your daughter about her body, and I wanted to create something similar for parents of boys. My friend Nathan and I put this list together, and would love to hear your input.

How to talk to your son about his body, step one: talk to your son about his body. Give him the vocabulary that he needs to communicate how he feels about himself.

Teach him that it’s normal to think about his appearance.

Teach him that it’s fine to want to be handsome or pretty.

Teach him that being a boy doesn’t take away his right to have feelings about his body.

If your son tells you that he is unhappy because he is too fat or too skinny, don’t dismiss him. Don’t tell him that boys don’t have to worry about stuff like that. Don’t tell him that he’s lucky that he’s not a girl, because then it would really be a problem.]]></description>
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    <dc:date>2013-07-05T11:25:49+00:00</dc:date>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Dear Mom,

I was 7 when I discovered that you were fat, ugly, and horrible. Up until that point I had believed that you were beautiful—in every sense of the word. I remember flicking through old photo albums and staring at pictures of you standing on the deck of a boat. Your white strapless bathing suit looked so glamorous, just like a movie star. Whenever I had the chance I’d pull out that wondrous white bathing suit hidden in your bottom drawer and imagine a time when I’d be big enough to wear it; when I’d be like you.

But all of that changed when, one night, we were dressed up for a party and you said to me, ‘‘Look at you, so thin, beautiful, and lovely. And look at me, fat, ugly, and horrible.’’

At first I didn’t understand what you meant.

‘‘You’re not fat,’’ I said earnestly and innocently, and you replied, ‘‘Yes I am, darling. I’ve always been fat; even as a child.’’

In the days that followed I had some painful revelations that have shaped my whole life. I learned that:

1. You must be fat because mothers don’t lie.
2. Fat is ugly and horrible.
3. When I grow up I’ll look like you and therefore I will be fat, ugly, and horrible too.]]></description>
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    <title>A Pain in My Chest — The Brooks Review</title>
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    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Causing her pain broke my heart, but, as it turns out, my wife was right (she usually is) and our daughter is better off for it.

Normally I wouldn’t post something like this here, but it turns out that this is a very common problem and almost no pediatricians know about it or how to treat it. When we looked there were but three doctors we found that did the revision with a laser, one in Vancouver BC, one in southern California and one in Albany, New York.

So I post this here in hopes that I am able to help at least one other person. The entire lip-tie/tongue-tie thing seemed silly to me at first, but the results speak for themselves and that’s all the proof I needed to be a believer.]]></description>
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    <title>10 Priceless Gifts Your Children Need from You Today | Meant to be Happy</title>
    <dc:date>2012-06-20T08:30:41+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://meanttobehappy.com/10-priceless-gifts-your-children-need-from-you-this-fathers-day/</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Gifts come in all forms. shapes and sizes. Some are meaningful and some are devoid of meaning. Some gather dust on shelves and others break and rust and become obsolete. The following list of gifts, however, are guaranteed to never rust or need upgrading, will never spoil or gather dust on shelves. These gifts, in fact, will keep on giving indefinitely.

Following are 10 such gifts your children are waiting to receive from you. They are inexpensive, for the most part. But there is a cost, a cost in the form of changes made to the parent giving them, perhaps in order to give them. Believe me, if given consistently, over time, they promise top dollar on your investment.]]></description>
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    <title>Good Dad, Good Entrepreneur, Good Husband | PandoDaily</title>
    <dc:date>2012-02-05T20:29:09+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://pandodaily.com/2012/02/05/good-dad-good-entrepreneur-good-husband/</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[At this point in my life, I feel strongly that my three most important jobs are being a good dad, a good entrepreneur, and a good husband. Over the past year, I’ve found that it’s incredibly difficult to excel at all three simultaneously. Perhaps, for people better than I, it’s an easy task. I’m not a member of that club.]]></description>
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    <title>WeSprout - Helping Grow Healthy Kids, Together</title>
    <dc:date>2012-02-01T12:28:32+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>https://wesprout.org/</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Parenting just got a little bit saner.
Spend more time enjoying parenthood, and less time dealing with it.]]></description>
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    <title>The 5 Best Toys of All Time | GeekDad | Wired.com</title>
    <dc:date>2011-12-09T20:43:56+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://www.wired.com/geekdad/2011/01/the-5-best-toys-of-all-time/all/1</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Here at GeekDad we review a lot of products — books, toys, gadgets, software — and I know it’s impossible for most parents to actually afford all of the cool stuff that gets written up. Heck, most of us can’t afford it either, and we’re envious of the person who scored a review copy of a cool board game or awesome gizmo. (Disclosure: that person is probably me.) So while we love telling you about all the cool stuff that’s out there, I understand that as parents we all have limited budgets and we sometimes need help narrowing down our wishlists.

So to help you out, I’ve worked really hard to narrow down this list to five items that no kid should be without. All five should fit easily within any budget, and are appropriate for a wide age range so you get the most play out of each one. These are time-tested and kid-approved! And as a bonus, these five can be combined for extra-super-happy-fun-time.]]></description>
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    <title>What the U.S. Can Learn from the Dutch About Teen Sex – TIME Healthland</title>
    <dc:date>2010-11-11T15:05:02+00:00</dc:date>
    <link>http://healthland.time.com/2010/09/09/what-the-u-s-can-learn-from-the-dutch-about-teen-sex/</link>
    <dc:creator>Aetles</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Two-thirds of Dutch parents allow their 15-to-17-year-old children to sleep with their partners in their homes, according to a 2003 survey cited by the Salon post.

But rather than resulting in crazed teen orgies and high rates of teen pregnancy, abortion or transmission of STDs, the Dutch have far lower rates of these problems than the U.S. For example, the teen pregnancy rate in the Netherlands is just 12 pregnancies per 1,000 girls aged 15 to 19. In the staid U.S., there are 72 pregnancies per 1,000 girls the same age. The Dutch teen abortion rate is 20% lower than that in the U.S. And the rate of HIV infection in America is three times higher than in The Netherlands.

The differences between the cultures, and between the parenting styles in each country, are many, but key among them is attitude toward sex. ]]></description>
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